G. A. R. F. I. E. L. D.

Going away can be a very special time used to get from a point in life to another peak in the continued growth of the human aspect of living. The earth was placed through a cleansing period from the early days of Noah. The span is somewhat comparable to the life cycle that has started to reveal it's purpose for me. Forty days and Forty nights rings high on my list of great overall quotes. The beginning and the end of two separate births must be birthed out of pain. The relief of it is that the pain can remarkably be forgotten, if the rewards is great. The way that a mother often states when going through labor that she will never place herself in harms way again and find herself embracing the next pregnancy.


Away the times continue to go, on the time line of life and we should not be confused to think that anyone of us will be here to the ends of the earth. However, we should embark upon the idea of making whatever time we have a positive note or as my brother would often say a good dash in the obituary. Now I don't hold any to do manual or a self help book stating what works for you all I have been given in this life at this time is what works for me. I travel when I have a lot of thing that have to be figured out and decisions to made. My travel is a time where I can focus on the inner true feeling.


Relief can come in all kinds of ways there are relief stop points where it is made for you to take a minute to re evaluate the situation you are currently experiencing. The rotation of life allows you to get to this point many times in your life. The way I realized I had a relief point was after experiencing this for about ten times call me stupid I just could not choose the path in which my mind and soul was telling me to do because it seemed to conflict with everything I told myself was important to me and my so call core family. Growing up in a single parent home for the most part, I told myself after losing my father as a young girl I would have something I never would have experienced as a child a complete family. Looking back at the pain I put myself, family and friends through I can not help but to tell everyone who will listen LOVE YOU first the best thing anyone can do for others you care about is to love you.


Forward is the way the car drives mostly as for the driver they may reflect on the past by taking a quick look at the rear view mirror but the main focus is on the upcoming road and obstacles ahead. This method should be used in life as we navigate throughout the life miles on these trips we call our lives. There are many conversions inches to foot, feet to yard, yards to miles and so on my point is that it might take a few inches to make your foot stable, a few feet to make your relationship steady and few yards to make it a success. Whatever the comparison is the need to keep you car in traffic and going forward is a must.


In finding yourself and what about your personality causes you to see the good in you. Finding the bad is not a hard thing for most people to do we can list a dozen thing in less than five minute time. Take time to list the positive thing you never notice about yourself and every day tell yourself a good thing you listed in an effort to up your personal worth. I thought of my personality, beauty, sense of humor, intelligence, shapeliness as some of the selling points to my personal wealth. I am happy to state that once I started the process I found that more often than not I had no problem attracting positive people in my life. I also had to rebuild my profile. In fact, overall, we are impressed with the how others stack up to what is place in front of us in the different types of media, we must stop and think for ourselves and evaluate things of importance and doing this we can change our situation.


Every important issue has a positive and negative image. There are people that will continue to look for the negative in everything and to those people I believe that to everything there is a season I just hope that the negative can bring about a positive to the many. The basic problem with issues is that you can let them lead you to depression by over thinking. So keep it simple and know that with mental health it is a continuum and at times we are far left and wide right. I would try to keep it mid field but if you find yourself in the left or right lane don't be upset keep going forward.


Living is a gift. The whole idea of living is going about attempting to learn and figure out what is best in your situation. Take for example my life I'm forty years old and as a young child I wanted to protect my mother and sibling rather than find out what made me tic. The young lady became preoccupied with making her man happy which lead to making her children happy. The results 40 years down the road I was a MESS. I allowed myself to be used to make the glass house mentality. Meet the family on the streets and the average person would say you have such a great family achieving the American dream with a home, cars, white collar job. Real life the children witness physical and mental abuse in large portions. The abuse was even embraced in a sick kind of way. I'm so happy I have a loving family that loves unconditionally if not for this I could not be where I am today living life as ME forgetting the nay sayer's. Living life is not a jail sentence and should never be felt as such in the event you think so remember every human being is a special package.

Daily evaluation will keep you on target, reflect on the pass, embrace the future and live life from the drivers seat, take time to relax and relate. Keep you first and embrace the different qualities you bring to this whole world and make it worth while. MESSAGE LOVE YOU AND LIVE. I hope this brings someone closer to finding happiness.